Transgender Dating Coach

Meet a transgender girlfriend! I'm Amber Lynn, author of the free T-Girl Dating Guide -- download your copy instantly and learn how to romance transsexuals, shemales and t-girls of all types.T-Girl Dating Coach Amber Lynn Tells How to Meet Transgender Girlfriends

Do you want to know how to meet Transgender Girls? Do you find your efforts are often misunderstood by the T-Girls you contact? Perhaps you joined a transgender dating site but can’t get a reply. No need to worry. I have a unique understanding of what makes t-girls and their admirers tick. Often, it is just a matter of semantics or fine-tuning the approach that will make the difference with your transgender romantic efforts.

I’ve helped guys overcome their trans dating apprehension and shown them how to become successful in their romantic efforts. It isn’t difficult, but there are some things you absolutely must know. Otherwise, you risk outright rejection and you may not even realize why. All that is about to change!

Would you like to be the guy every T-Girl wants to be with? Do you want to meet a very special T-Girl and develop a long-term relationship? I’m here to help you succeed even if you have failed before. It comes down to supply and demand. There are many more admirers than t-girls, so you need to take just a few steps to make sure you stand above the other transgender admirers.

Many men with all the best intentions have been turned away just because they said the wrong thing. There are a few things you need to know before you jump headfirst into trying to find, attract and seduce T-Girls. Knowing these little tidbits may make the difference between success and failure!

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Transgender Girlfriends Chat & Social Network


Join thousands of transgender community members and friends. Browse profiles, look through photos and join the live chat. Transgender chat and social networking is a great way to explore your place in the transgender community. Come join us in a safe, welcoming environment and meet new friends! We have chat rooms designed specifically for the transgender community and trans support rooms so you can join us for a comfortable chat experience among people who understand you.


If you’re an admirer or want to engage in naughty chat we have you covered too. Just sign up and look in the chat rooms list for adult-themed rooms just for you! has created a chat room and social networking platform with something for everyone. We don’t have a lot of chat rules but we need a few to be sure the chat flows smoothly. Please read through the chat rules and make sure you follow them. Join the conversations and get to know everyone. There are some great transgender folks and community friends who will be happy to chat with you. Click here to sign in or join transgender chat – it’s always free!

Transgender Girlfriends Chat – You Must Agree To The Rules Stated Below

Transgender Chat Rules: The transgender chat room is frequently monitored by moderators who may or may not identify themselves as staff members. You must abide by their instructions at all times. We try not to be overbearing but some simple rules are needed to ensure a sense of safety and a free flow of live chat.

1. You must be at least 18 years of age per the site rules.
2. Name-calling, harassment, racism, bigotry, and general disrespect towards other chatters is not permitted.
3. Do not publicly or privately post any personally identifying information or private conversations.
4. Conversations involving politics and religion are allowed only in the Politics and Religion & Spirituality rooms, respectively.
5. Arguing with chat moderators is not permitted.
6. Please block members who cause problems or with whom you have personal issues.
7. Do not post Craigslist style ads in the lobbies. (eg. 24/looking for phone or cam fun. etc.) Use topic rooms for these kinds of chat requests.
8. Do not spam or flood the room.
9. Cybering in group/public chat is only allowed in the adult-themed rooms.

My trans photo galleries

I have uploaded so many photo sets that you can’t see them all in the drop-down menu. You can click the link to view links to all of my trans photo galleries.

Transgender dating. Men who aren't attracted to transgender women. Are they transphobic?

Are they transphobic?

From a Facebook discussion

No, of course not. They are just missing out.   We all have our own preferences when it comes to sexual attraction. That’s fine and it’s normal. You can still be a trans ally even if you’re not attracted to trans women. You may be asking, what brought this on?

Well, a right-wing publication recently ran a highly biased article asking whether those who are not attracted to transgender people [implying cisgender, hetro] are transphobic. They were making the claim that the trans community (they believe we are a huge conspiracy) would have you believe you are transphobic if you aren’t attracted to trans people. The reality is that life is never quite so simple. As humans, our attraction to certain genders and types is hardwired. We don’t seem to have much control over who we’re attracted to. Regardless of whether we are attracted to certain people or not, we don’t have to be a bigoted asshole about it. We do have control over that. 


There is no one size fits all approach to romancing T-Girls. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you all the insider secrets to make you irresistible to most of the T-Girls you will meet.

Download my free t-girl dating guide!My free T-Girl dating course is now available. I created this as a guide to meeting and romancing T-Girls. I’ll tell you where to meet T-Girls both online and offline, how to make your approach and opening lines, the correct terminology to use and how to sweep your special T-Girl off her feet.

The Dating Guide is now available in PDF for download or online reading as a PDF. Just click the image or link to view. It’s all absolutely free and I’ll share my personal thoughts, insights into the T-Girl world.

If you don’t mind, I’d love to hear your comments. You can post a message in the comments on this site or visit me on social media by following the links in the sidebar.

T-Girl Dating Guide: Comments from Readers

“Amber, just so you know ….. I’ve been sending fellas to your site for some time now. It’s kinda like, check this out BEFORE we go out. 🙂 … I am what I call myself a high self-esteem crossdresser. Once I got that part figured out my dates got better. But yes, your site is a wealth of info for them and us. Now I don’t tell them to f off as quick. lol, I send some of them your link and see if we can get on the same page together.” ~ Dana D (Facebook Friend)

“Hello Amber. Yes I did receive the guide and it was very helpful. It helped me understand the terms used a lot better. It seemed to be a lot of common sense as far as how to have a conversation with a special girl. I am not looking for a man nor do i want a man so it was really nice to know that the way i talk and treat a woman normally is what is expected. Thank you for taking the time to compile a guide like that for guys like me. I had been in the admirer stage for a long time and am now ready to pursue my first experience so it was very beneficial to me. Now is the hard part I am finding out, meeting the right girl for me. So thank you again and wish me luck. I look forward to reading your future emails.” ~ Ray

“I have downloaded the dating guide, and it’s great! I consider myself to be a smart and respectful guy, but you have enlightened me on so many things. Some of the thoughts and problems gals face I wouldn’t have ever thought about. I really appreciate someone with so much insight sharing it with everyone. You are really great for putting all this info out. Sorry if I sound like I am gushing, but you really are owed a ton of gratitude for all the work you put in. Also I cannot wait to see some new pictures!” ~ Danny H. (Facebook Friend)

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T-Girls are special! We generally adore our femininity and love the attention we get from male admirers. The problem is that so many guys don’t realize there are different types of t-girls and we all have our different personalities, needs and desires. Consider the fact that under the umbrella term “transgender,” there are those who identify as crossdressers, pre-op & post-op transsexuals, transvestites, shemales, drag queens, transgendered and intersexed. Like the general public, some are strictly heterosexual while others are bisexual or homosexual. The problem for gentlemen admirers (and I know you’re all gentlemen…. right?) is that they often don’t tailor their approach to fit the t-girl.

Interview with Caramel’s T-Girls

I was interviewed by my new friend Caramel from Caramel’s T-Girls. She asked some great questions. You can read the entire interview with Caramel at her website.

Meet More Local Trans Friends!

Take the time to spoil yourself. You deserve a break from the everyday grind just as much as anyone else. Find some new friends, chat with new people and maybe find a love interest.

188 thoughts on “Home”

  1. I have always wanted to date and marry a transgender woman myself and have the utmost respect for every transgender women and transgender people as well.

  2. I want to meet a nice and sexy trans, I haven’t never been with one but think about it all the time and it drives me crazy.i want to try it I know i’ll like it I don’t have a card for a date site

  3. I was so fortunate meet a sexy beautiful transsexual had the best time ever. I’d really would like to continue to get to know more T-girls

  4. I’m 39 part time m cd. Looking some transgender women near me. I want meet one and maybe date one
    Please help if you can

  5. Would love to get together with a beautiful transsexual beauty! Will one of you beautiful women contact me so I can enjoy your company!

  6. I’m in my late 40’s, love to cross dress, looking for company, conversation, and maybe more!!
    How do I begin.

  7. I’m getting up there in age, would love to try a trannie. I aways wanted to. I’m willing to go both ways. thanks

  8. Amber, I read your T-Girl Dating Guide years ago and it has made a wonderful difference! After years of enjoyable dates I finally met the love of my life. Linda and I were married in October, and I thank you for getting me started!

  9. I love wearing my silky pantiie over my shaved little clit and do want to meet a man to me a woman of me and become nretthjb

  10. I’m in the Olathe Kansas area and was wondering where you go to meet some ladybois, shehe, and T-girls. I very much want a girl friend and maybe more to.

  11. AmberLynn
    I truly now have a new goal n life 2strive 4, since
    C e U on TwitR, I said,”damn, I am no doubt n lust, yet unless Ur heart is taken already, if we eventually meet, I am certain WE, YES, WE, soon would
    B, n Luv,, I haven’t read Ur bio yet, ooopps, so, as U explained n an artical, most men have no idea the many personalities Tgirls can have, I, well I was lucky enough for nearly 10yrs to b taken n, to not only b excepted, but 2 b taught an shown, all the unknown practices of the community n San Francisco, Ca, I too have a way,I have always been a Cool ass human, a confident, intelligent, fun, loyal, protective, and HONEST man,,it was like, when n e new girl approached me, many offering services, one or more, always sumone would say,”bitch, this is Jonathan, an he ain’t no trick”,, my girls, I provided protection on the streets, motels,NOT FOR $$ ,but cauz it was needed, many girls were treated terrible, n fact, the way it all started, I saved Lil Julianna, a pretty cd, sweet, hott, small, a group was goin to beat her, not admirers, haters, idiots, an, somehow, I didnt allow it, and, wow, she took me n, touring, introducing, etc,, I am, I always laff, str8, top, only, I luv female parts, beauty, hell, I admire unattractive ladies, and I love, faces, tits, an ASS,, AHHHH YES, REST, OH, 4 SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS, SO MANY FRIENDS AND STORIES THAT R LIKE OFF THE REALM OF REALITY,, FUN, INLIGHTENMENT, AN, OF COURSE,, GREAT FUCKIN SEX,, WOW,, DID I MENTION I WAS BLESSED WITH B N,,, A TRUE STUD, SEXUAL GOD, NO DICKHEAD HERE, IT IS TRUE,, AN I AM THQNKFUL 4EVERY SINGLE HUMAN, WHO,, WELL, WHAT WORD EQUALS, I GAVE U ME,, U GAVE ME U,, UR BODY,, UR INSIDES,, A MIRACAL,, MUCH MORE,, FOR NOW,, I KNOW ALL THE TRICKS

  12. hello amber very insightful column looking forward to getting the book I’m truly looking for a TS girlfriend. I know it seems to be the latest fad for all the men in the world who just want to fuck one but I actually would love to date one experience new things with buy your gifts bring her places and spoil her rotten. it’s amazing for 25 years I’ve been fucking women anything possible in the world to do to a woman has been done over and over. I can’t even get off anymore. funny thing is as soon as I log on to a porn site and search of transvestites transgender my hand is already on my cock. I really need to find out where in the Boston area would I be able to meet and search for my next true love. in the meantime I could always hire them just a fuck. practice makes perfect so if it takes a long time to find my special girl I’ll be able to make love to her like no if you could help me out with a few little things to help me on my quest for love I will be forever in your debt. and who knows maybe you’re my future wife. Lol thank you sincerely tony d

  13. Hi I’m by man that the best of both but its hard find any shemales in virgins for sex love dating and mabey marrige

  14. My dear Amber.

    I am reading your guide thoroughly. It’s been years since I want do date a T-Girl but finding it very hard. Unfortunatelly, all started with curiosity so I started with visiting professional sex workers. However, this generated that I am well known by many T-girls (as you say in your guide, they talk a lot about this snd the other guy -like any woman). Althugh, i ‘ve been told i am known for being very nice to them, always very respectfull, etc, it’s seems i had now a reputation that is no helping me…

    Do you have any advice? Any chance i can talk to you? I feel so sad about this.

    Many thanks for everything,

  15. I have been with a TG before and I would like to meet up with another. I can say that being with a TG is an experience like no other!

  16. I really want to talk and me a hot transgender near me but i don’t have a credit card. Is there another way? Please help if you can

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