About Me: Amber Lynn T-Girl

About Amber Lynn, author of T-Girl Dating Guide
Name: Amber Lynn
Age: 31
Personal: Pre-Op Transsexual
Height: 5-9
Weight: 130
Location: New York City
Occupation: Writer, Model
Hobbies: Travel, swimming, photography
Likes: Guys who know how to treat a lady ; )
Dislikes: Mean people

Hi, I’m Amber Lynn, your T-Girl Dating Coach. I am a lifelong transgender woman. I love being feminine and dating both men and women. I especially adore men who have good manners and treat me like a lady. I work hard to look my best so why shouldn’t I be treated with respect? When I first started dating I noticed that a lot of men seemed shy or awkward, and didn’t know how to approach me. Sometimes they didn’t approach me at all and that’s a shame. I might have really enjoyed their company.

T-Girl Dating Coach

I became known as the T-Girl Dating Coach because I’ve helped guys overcome their apprehension and shown them how to become successful in their efforts to romance t-girls. Most of these guys I actually dated but some approached me in forums or through friends and I’ve tried to help whenever I could. I came to realize there is a serious lack of information about where and how to meet t-girls, and how to succeed with transgender romance. Worse, there is an abundance of misinformation that leaves many men with the wrong ideas about how to treat t-girls. My job is to change all that.

“a lot of men seemed shy or awkward, and didn’t know how to approach me. Sometimes they didn’t approach me at all and that’s a shame. I might have really enjoyed their company.”

48 thoughts on “Bio”

  3. I like a lot of ppl have always wanted to know and possibly date or more with a t-girl but dont know how or where to meet them

  5. hi i would just like to say you are very beautiful and would love to go on a date with you but i am not in the same country xxx

  6. Hello Amber, I’m Lance, I’m 21 nearly 22, I’m from Bristol, England, United Kingdom, I only just found out about you from seeing your video on YouTube which I seen today the 18th January 2013. I am very attracted to Tgirl’s both in the sexual and in the relationship way. I have the upmost highest respect for tgirl’s and i fancy them a lot. But in bristol there aren’t a lot of them in bristol and especially in my area of Bristol. Plus as I don’t go out clubbing or drinking out on the town cos I don’t find it safe. So I don’t go to any clubs where tgirls may be. But I have always wanted to have the chance to chat to one but in truth I actually want to date a tgirl. But may I say Amber that you are indeed a very attractive and gorgeous Tgirl that if I lived in the US that I would love to have the chance to date you but as I live in the UK I want to know if it would be ok if I could add you on facebook so that I can become your friend?.

  8. Hi Amber,,Have you ever come across a Metro sexual guy who is also a T-girl? Well I am one of those and I’m sure I’m not alone just like the familiar web site states,,I like your page and what your all about sweetie..Ive been in the lifestyle since I was 11 and I’ll be 53 in Dec..but look and act at least 12 yrs younger..I run a small makeover salon in my home and do transformations and photography afterwards,,Its fun and I get to help others achive their look they have always wanted and I make a little extra income..I’m all about helping the TG community get better and what your doing here is a BIG DEAL..Guys need to know how to treat us and if they follow these words of advice everyone benefits!!
    Love to hear back from you Amber and keep up the Good work!!!

    XOXO
    Satina

  13. I love to be a woman My sexual feelings are totally feminine I feel that I am female I am seeking a man or shemale to satisfy my strong feminine lust

  14. Hi Amber,
    You’re my dream girl that i should live the rest of my life with. Please help me finding one if u r not available!
    And i love U.

  15. Amber, you are one of the most beautiful ladies I have ever seen. I await the day I meet a Ts lady as gorgeous and sexy as you, and ask that you help me find one. I want a shemale to love, cherish, and treat like a queen. Sincerely Bigmike8incher69

  17. hi my sweet sweet amber how are u doing to day..
    i want to make love with you haha, want my lips on you xxxx thinking about my sexy xxxx so much and just wanted to tel you know you make me so horny and hot xxx i love feeling all.
    you are in my thoughts and so fucking horny for you.love you so much my sweet sweet baby .have a beautiful day xoxo
    kissesssssssssssssssssyubalove amber

  18. Hello my sweety, how aqre you???, you are super beauty and great, I admire YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO,I hope you accept my invitation of friendship in the site Netlog, I’m from Morocco and I live in the city of Marrakech, your newest

  19. Hello Amber. I am a twenty year old guy who has adored and been attracted to transwomen for as long as I can remember. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and giving advice to trans-attracted guys. What’s better than a beautiful transwoman who has a caring lover?

  21. HELLO AMBER, FIRST OFF I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT I THINK YOUR A VERY BEAUTIFUL AND CHARMING WOMAN. I JUST GOT YOUR DATING GUIDE LASTNIGHT AND COULDN’T PUT IT DOWN TILL I READ THE WHOLE GUIDE,THANK YOU FOR THE GUIDE. I THINK WOMAN LIKE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL FROM THE INSIDE OUT, AND YOU LADIES HAVE A INNER BEAUTY THAT ALMOST MATCHES YOUR OUTER BEAUTY,AND JUST MAYBE SO CALLED GENETIC WOMEN COULD LEARN SOME THINGS FROM YOU VERY SPECIAL LADIES. I GIVE YOU LADIES THE UPMOST RESPECT,FOR DEALING WITH WHAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH ON A DAILY BASIS,WHICH I’M SURE MOST WOMEN OR MEN FOR THAT MATTER, CANN’T EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK ON THIS SITE,HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON MY FRIEND, IF I MAY CALL YOU THAT. YOUR FRIEND JACK.

  22. Not only are you lovely Amber, I see you personally take time to reply to your friends.
    That’s a sign of humility,and coupled with your beauty, it is almost too much to bare.

  23. dear amber,
    i thank you for being so nice and cute and social! i think your a wonderful woman. love your site! don’t ever change!
    great job.
    thank you,
    jim1953speed
    xoxo

  24. Hi Amberlynn: I enjoy your honesty and openess. It’s so rare and refressing to see and hear what you share with everyone who comes to this site. You said that it’s comments about what you do that keeps you going. I hope that you never tire of all the projects and activities that you are involed in. Just keep doing what your doing and maybe you will be rewarded one day, and I hope that it will be sooner rather than later.
    I have a belief that the best things in life can’t be purchased, they must be given or shared, like friendship, and love. Thank you for what you share with everyone who visits here, and I hope this gives you renewed energy to keep going.

    one of your many fans
    Ray

  25. i feel like I’m trapped in relationships with women i know what i want and like and its a T girl. I. tried some of these so called dateing site but there all about sex. i just want to meet someone i can. fall in love with. Jasond1381@yahoo.com

  26. I find you a very attractive young lady and I applaud your efforts to try and guide us guys trying to negotiate the dating world. I’m not looking for dates myself (for some reason my wife frowns on such behavior) but rather tg friends to talk with and get to know better. I’ve been an admirer for some time now and am a refugee from one of the big T-porn sites where the chance to talk with various young ladies means wading through untold depths of macho bullshit. I’m 55 and been around guys all my life, but can’t understand why most of them can’t evolve past the objectification stage and treat all the ladies like ladies regardless of what they do for a living.

    Dave

  27. Hi Amber,

    I just started cross-dressing in Indian womans’ dress. I like cross-dressing in a sari with bangles, etc. I like cross-dressing and praying to Goddess Bahuchara. Goddess Bahuchara is the Hindu Goddess of cross-dressing.

    I am emailing you because, I want to move to India and become a Hijra. Do you know any Hijras? Thank you

  28. I have been looking in michigan for sometime trying to find a beautiful T Girl like you. I’m married but what to fill a desire I have and her’s also, hope she’s as perfect as you. PS no luck getting on the T Girl site you show.

  29. Hi Amber,
    I find you in facebook.
    wow, you are a very beautiful lovely lady. Wonderful pics of you!! I need a girlfriend like you. I love shemales, ladyboys, transsexual woman over all, they are the wonderful people in the world.
    Kisses to you from
    Steffen
    PS: Sorry for my bad english

  31. we need more girls like you Amber i think you know how to take a man sedduce him before he relises and where he wants to be love your work

  32. Famke Janssen!! That’s who you look like!! It’s been botherin me, but now I know. She played Jean Grey/Phoenix in the X-Men Movie. The resemblance is stunning.

  34. Hi Amber, you know me from facebook, once you see my link and see my picture, we friended not too long ago. Tgirls deserve the same space (when needed), love, respect, class, manners from guys, dignity, etc…. as a female born genetically female does, I hope this message finds you doing well, I have always been interested in dating a tgirl, and having a relationship with her, people can make fun of me for all I care, but I am 27, single (since 4 years ago) and still a virgin, I hope to one day marry a female (tgirl or genetic) I’ll treat either as a female and with what I listed above too right always, I would never cheat in a relationship, or marriage. I’m very affectionate (I wonder if most females or tgirls know that about me in the natural and not just online), I’m very creative (most of the time in how I seduce females, I do it in a way where they never forget me in a good and sweet way, I am currently starting to read your dating guide for dating Tgirls. I wanted to let you know, that even if we’re only friends on facebook for life, I wish you well in finding someone who completes your heart and life always.

    Your Christian friend,
    Daniel

    P.S. I am blessed to know you at least online, I will be in touch with you on facebook whenever it is we can chat, or talk, and like you said “direct all questions to an inbox message” which I will do. 🙂 Have a great week Amber my friend, love you.

  37. Hi Amber, I stumlbled across one of your videos on You Tube and that led me here. I think what you are doing is great because there are many men out there who have no idea how to treat T-Girls. I am lucky. When I realized that a T-Girl was what I needed (after being divorced twice and widowed once) I went out and found one and we now live together as a couple. She is a non-op transsexual and has a sense of humour as well as many other charms, and we are deeply in love. So much so that she donated a kidney to save my life in 2009, and that has brought us even closer together, if that were possible. I am an Englishman living in Hamburg from choice and she is German. Her name is Heike and we are now inseparable.

  38. I am honored to be your friend. I wish I had known about the exciting world of transgendered women. she males I always look at she males and transgender photos and sites as nothing turn me on more than a beautiful shemale like yourself but I am old now and maybe to old I am young in body and mind wish I good be just friends with a she male or more.as it would be such an honor for me. It’s good that times have changed to the point where being transgendered is not as frowned on as it once was when I was young. Person
    To date and have a serious relationship with a transgendered woman. Would be out of this world for me
    As I feel so much femme still inside me so knowing that I knew such people would instantly make me so happy I believe that you love the person, for what they are and accept that
    Take care Amber and keep up the fantastic work . Love you my friend
    Hugs’
    an honor to hopefully be your friend and Kisses
    please keep writing me notes and that thanks

  40. Like your style sweets. I am an older girl in her early 50s. I am now divorced. I am struggling with trying to find work as a tgirl. I want to apply as a girl and have worked in legal technologies. I see you work as a Technical Writer and it shows in your blog and website. Any tips, techniques, strategies to reinvent myself in this field. Given my law and technology background I feel I would do well in this job as a full time girl.

    I live in LA.

    Any thoughts?

    Hugs,

    Stephanie Hughes

  41. Hi i am Jay i am 39 your old male with a well I have had a lot of females that say they are into being kinky but they freak out when i tell them I have a dream about me a mature female and a shemale in NYLONS she shows me how to suck cock ten well I live @ broadway&Arapaho u should call me I would love to talk to you and ask some Q`s if you dont mind seven to oh five three oh four to to to

  42. Hey Amber. Just browsing the net. I’d really like to date a transgendered but need some help getting into the community. Any pointers or places to start. I’m here in portland as well.

  43. I saw your other comments and I love you to Amber. Thank you for being my very special and loving friend.

    Huggs and Kisses
    Tim
    xoxo

  44. Hey Amber,
    Thanks for being my friend.
    I have always had a bit of a weakness for t-girls, but haven’t really had much success connecting with them.
    This was in part to not knowing how to approach them, etc.
    I think that your guide is a great idea.
    I hope that we have a chance to chat.
    Keep up the good work.

    Dave

  46. Hi Amber,

    I don’t know what I have said or did to offend you but, please know that I am truly sorry. According to “James Kopec (Heather Love) “….I “creep you out”…. Please forgive me for whatever I’ve done.

    Huge Huggs and Kisses
    Your Loving and Confused Friend
    Tim
    xoxo

  47. I know you from “facebook” and I am honored to be your friend. I wish I had known about the amazingly beautiful and exciting world of transgendered women when I was young and single but that would have been over 30 years ago. It’s good that times have changed to the point where being transgendered is not as much a taboo as it once was. If I was younger and single, I would be honored to date and have a serious relationship with a transgendered woman. I believe that you love the person, not their parts.
    Take care Amber and keep up the fantastic work sweetie. Love you my friend

    Huge Huggs and Kisses
    Your Loving and Honored Friend
    Tim
    xooxoxox

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